﻿<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd"><channel><docs>http://www.rssboard.org/rss-specification</docs><title>Dean's Blog</title><atom:link href="http://www.swcu.edu/Rss.aspx?ContentID=1010945" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><itunes:author>www.swcu.edu</itunes:author><itunes:owner><itunes:name>John Chasteen</itunes:name></itunes:owner><link>http://www.swcu.edu</link><pubDate>Sun, 19 May 2013 09:26:06 GMT</pubDate><description>Dean's Blog</description><lastBuildDate>Mon, 19 May 1913 09:26:06 GMT</lastBuildDate><item><title>Living Life - One Conversation at a Time</title><link>http://www.swcu.edu/living-life---one-conversation-at-a-time</link><pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 00:56:58 GMT</pubDate><itunes:author>John Chasteen</itunes:author><dc:creator>John Chasteen</dc:creator><description><![CDATA[<p><b>Come into the conversation with nothing but yourself</b></p>
<p>It has been said that life is comprised of one meaningful conversation after another. Could it really be that simple?" Possibly! I believe success in life <i>is</i> connected with our conversations, so it stands to reason that it's advantageous to become skilled in conversation.  </p>
<p>Are you living life one conversation at a time? Here are a few pointers, hope they help.</p>
<p> 1. Seek to understand, not interpret the other person.</p>
<p>2. Never interrupt the other person while they're talking.</p>
<p>3. Don't dominate the conversation.</p>
<p>4. Don't run ahead in your thinking.</p>
<p> 5. Never try to one-up the other person.</p>
<p>6. Be fully present in the conversation.</p>
<p>7. Ask and give good feedback.</p>
<p>8. Always ask for clarification if needed.</p>
<p>9. Let silence do the heavy lifting.</p>
<p>10. Master the couraage to interrogate the conversation.</p>
<p><b>Conclusion:</b></p>
<p>Conversations make or break us. In Jesus words, every man will be held accountable for every idle word,(Mt. 12:36) sounds pretty serious to me. </p>
<p>Come out from behind yourself into the conversation and make it real. Live life - One conversation at a time.</p>
<p><b>Coach John</b></p>
<p><b>Works cited:</b> Susan Scott, <i>Fierce Conversations</i></p>
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